We don’t want the same things anymore

7 June

For many people, the pandemic has changed our definitions of success and our ambition.

It’s not about racing to the top of the corporate ladder anymore. People pleasing. Overthinking. Overcommitting. The scaffolds that propelled us along in our careers and our lives are breaking down. Being in a box, or progressing through a series of boxes seems far less appealing now.

The pandemic has given us a rare chance to see behind the curtain and really look at how we structure work and the role it has taken in our lives. We have a chance to recreate this and make it stick before the loudest voices and the ruts of habit have us careering back into old paradigms

Being busy is losing its cachet as a status symbol. And busywork is being brought into full view. Being shown up to be as absurd as it actually is.

These shifts don’t always happen quickly, and we usually get in our own way. Or we let other people get in our way.

What are we not looking at? What are we ignoring? What are we hoping will just go away? We do this all the time in organizations and in our lives. The problem is that the really important things we ignore rarely go away. They just show up in inconvenient and often painful ways, at the most inconvenient times.

What have you been chasing that you suddenly realize you aren’t chasing anymore? Allow yourself the time to think and feel what it is you actually want.